The ambient abuse of Narcissist runs deep. Their illness permeates the environment of their children, wives, housemates, co-workers, and everywhere else they are. Not to demonize them because I do believe that the Goddess can heal us all. And children especially learn through absorption of energy. The core of a narcissist energy is a belief in a lie. The lie is that’ I am not important(worthy).’ Because narcissist don’t look within they see within as without, the message they project is ‘you are not important.’ They enforce this belief and drive into your system as if you are evil if you don’t give this exhausting belief you religious attention by the way they look at you, the subtle petty draining words they say under their breathe, and the complimenting you and public but putting you down in private.
The secret that you must always remember as you are healing from this illness that has infected all of us in some way shape or form is that you can never not be important. Every cell in your body and everything around is responding to you. You are drawing unto you everything you want, need, and desire, by the power of attention, intention, emotions, and actions. You are important to every cell within and without you. You are important to your higher Self. Your Selfs are your Cells. That is how we are all one! All of our Celfs are connected you can never not be important to every cell in your living body! Remember that hold on to it. No one can take that away from you.